Category Archives: Fathers

Father’s Day, 2022

It’s wonderful reading through Dad’s journals. (None of us, kids, have read the ones in recent years, though…) It’s important and necessary. When we have a question about what happened on a certain day, the solution is to go to Dad’s journal.

It’s fun discovering my mom’s entries in his journals too. So, the days following after I was born, both my parents wrote in my dad’s journal. (It’s wonderful to see how well my parents work together.) My dad wrote some technical stuff and probably how great it was that I was born. (I just remember reading about my weight, size, etc.) My mom wrote that when my dad found out he had a daughter, that he “cried with joy.”

My dad’s written daily in a journal for longer than…well, for a long time. I would write on and off in my journal growing up, but it wasn’t ’til 2007, after I heard a General Conference talk by President Henry B. Eyring, that I was more motivated to write every day. I really tried, got frustrated, but thanks to my dad’s unwavering example, I’ve succeeded for the most part (I’ve just missed a few days) the last fifteen years.

I’m happy to find answers in my own journal entries. But I still rely heavily on my dad and his journals when I have certain questions. Valuable examples include his details about a car accident I had, a post on my blog, my surgery (I wrote like one sentence entries; he wrote a way longer-and funnier- account), etc.

Thanks to his journals, mine, and those who have written about him, it’s easier to recall events as well as realize how much my dad loves me.

I also want to add that pictures and videos have also been valuable records. Though people can get annoyed when taking pics, you have to admit, you’re grateful for them later!

Taken at a daddy-daughter activity…a few years back.

Peters, Pattens, and Preparing by Caring for Family

In my last post, I compared my parents to Aquila and Priscilla, and now I wish to compare my parents to Simon Peter and his wife. I believe that Mrs. Peter went with her husband on his missions—just like my mom and dad have gone together. Long before their missions, though, both couples took care of the wives’ mothers. This act is brave and selfless as well as good preparation to share the loving teachings of Jesus Christ. Perhaps it’s one of the best preparations. One memory that left a lasting impression on me was my dad driving Grandma to early morning appointments.

Because of such memories, I feel a connection to the story of Jesus healing Simon Peter’s mother-in-law.

And when Jesus was come into Peter’s house, he saw his wife’s mother laid, and sick of a fever.

And he touched her hand, and the fever left her: and she arose, and ministered unto them” (Matthew 8:14-15).

I’m in awe when I read this passage. I feel a warmth and inspiration that I can’t really explain.

Further reading:
Alice
Matthew 8; Mark 1; Luke 4

Featured Image from painting Christ Healing the Mother of Simon Peter’s Wife by John Bridges.

 

Sharing Both Bad and Good News

Christian cathedrals and churches have been destroyed this last week. Will these tragic events be investigated and discussed or will some try to conceal the information? I suppose it depends on certain media outlets…

In my professional experience in education, I notice that some can go to great lengths to conceal information.  Keeping bad news from children in many cases is a transgression. I’m not saying that you go to your kid and start spouting off sorrowful occurrences. I’m saying that you need to be honest and build on details as the child matures. This is actually something that protects them.

For example, I’m still shocked that when I was subbing six years ago, there was no trace of United States patriotism at the school on 9/11. However, I  must add, I have regained hope that adults will share. Three years ago, at another school, sixth-graders were introduced to  the sad events that occurred on 9/11. They were appalled but were strong. Gradually, they will gain more knowledge as they get older.

While life isn’t all candy and ice cream, there is hope. Hope is found though Jesus Christ. There are those who are trying to wipe away His name from the public as well. I believe that by installing Judeo-Christian values in our children, there is more freedom and safety.

One experience that comes to mind happened when I was a small child. I was watching The Ten Commandments with my family. I was terrified at the destroying angel part.

“Dad, what if that happens again?”

He said something like, “If we listen to the prophets, we’ll be okay. They’ll let us know what to do.”

It was a short response, but I was satisfied. I have never forgotten that counsel.

It’s bad to conceal bad news, but it is a deep sin to also conceal the good news–the good news being Jesus Christ.